The Internal resource to healing

Glyn Smithson
Aug 21, 2024By Glyn Smithson

Just, Imagine if there was a clear, structured path to healing—a roadmap that could guide us in addressing the deep-seated roots of issues like depression, anxiety, eating disorders, addiction, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts.

What if we could tap into an inner well of calm, clarity, compassion, creativity, courage, and curiosity?

This is where Dick Schwartz's revolutionary therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), comes into play.

IFS introduces the concept of an 'internal family' made up of distinct parts within each of us.

Rather than condemning these parts as problematic, IFS views them as protective mechanisms—often operating unconsciously. This perspective is captured in the principle of the IFS model of therapy, based on over 40 years of learning and practice.

 The core of IFS lies in understanding and integrating these parts to promote inner peace and healing.

With decades of research and clinical practice behind it, Dick Schwartz's model has earned global recognition for its effectiveness in addressing deeply rooted, complex behaviors.

At the heart of IFS is the healing relationship between the client’s Self—their true, calm, and compassionate essence—and the younger, wounded parts within them. The objective is to nurture and empower the presence of the Self.

The IFS model categorizes these parts in various ways:

Exiles: These parts hold memories of past traumas or painful experiences, often carrying intense emotions. They are typically kept out of conscious awareness to avoid overwhelming feelings.

Firefighters: When exiles are triggered, firefighters jump into action, attempting to distract or numb the person from painful emotions. This can result in impulsive behaviors, addictions, or other coping mechanisms.

Managers: These parts strive to maintain control and prevent vulnerability, often manifesting as perfectionism, overworking, or rigid routines.

When a person becomes overly identified with one particular part, losing touch with their Self, it’s known as blending. IFS helps individuals ‘unblend’ from these parts, allowing them to reconnect with their compassionate Self.

IFS facilitates an internal dialogue between different parts, enabling them to express themselves and be understood, paving the way for integration and healing.

The goal of the model is to help individuals reprocess and heal from traumatic or painful experiences by accessing and integrating their exiled parts, often guided by the Self.

By exploring and understanding the interactions between these internal parts, IFS aims to create inner balance and promote healing.

In the depths of our unconscious mind lie the keys to our freedom.

By bringing these parts into the light, we can unlock the door to true self-understanding and mastery.